Friday, October 4, 2013

Useful Bereavement Gift Idea Tips

By Angel Dudley


The human experience has as its core mortality and uncertainty. Essentially, this means that people have a limited time on earth and this is why losing loved ones is so common. For those who want to comfort friends, acquaintances or colleagues who have suffered loss, bereavement gift items are thought of as a solution.

Anyone who is buying a present for a mourner should consider two main things. Those two things are the cost of the present as well as the mourner's taste. This is very important as the wrong gift may fail to adequately accomplish the task of cheering up or comforting the intended recipient.It is also important to give due consideration to the ethos that exists after the loss. This is so because not all losses are accompanied by desolation. In fact, many losses are converted into celebrations where the survivors give thanks for the lives of the departed.

Bouquets are great for cheering up someone who is mourning. Flowers have always been used by people for decorative and aesthetic purposes but they also signify hope and life. Vibrant colors uplift the spirit and mild ones are calming. The perfume given off by flowers serve similar purposes.

Choose the flowers that will help to achieve the desired outcome. If the aim is to maintain a solemn mood while showing empathy then gentle colors may be used. If the mood is a celebratory one then bright vibrant colors and aromas are best. Bear in mind also that some individuals may have allergic reactions to flowers. It is wise, therefore to consider those flowers that are least likely to trigger allergic reactions.

A card may seem like a simple or common method of expressing condolences but it can speak volumes about how much empathy the giver has for the mourner. Solace or condolence cards are widely used to bring comfort to individuals who are dealing with a loss. As a result manufacturers have created a wide variety of designs and messages to apply to varying situations. This is why most condolence card shoppers will have no difficulty finding the perfect cards. The card may also be customized to make it more personal.

Creative works such as poetry, art work or songs represent an 'out of the box' method of consoling someone who is grieving. It makes a world of a difference to someone who has lost a loved one to know that the giver took the time to create an entire poem, song or painting just for them. This is one of those gifts that are often cherished for years after the exchange is made.

Of course the creative work does not have to be created by the sender, especially if the sender does not have the artistic talent required. It can be done through contract or as a favor by someone else who has the artistic talent. This does not take away from the uniqueness of such a present, in fact, it often makes it even more valuable.

The value of a bereavement gift to those who are mourning cannot be underestimated. Gifts of this nature help to form strong bonds between the receiver and the sender. Bearing this in mind, present givers must consider their truest wishes before finding, making or buying these gifts.




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