The general premise of the Law of Attraction is to think good, positive thoughts about how you want your life to be and eventually your life will become what you think about. While all of this is well and good, how many of us can truly say that we are able to continually be positive and optimistic on a regular basis. Some of us simply aren't created this way. Does this mean that we are doomed to live a life based upon our negative thoughts and fears?
There are going to be times when negative thoughts and doubts come into our mind. We might feel that we are helpless to do anything about them. True fears and underlying doubts are a part of our makeup. Not all of us accept change easily and even the thought of positive changes can send some of us into a tailspin. Every positive change comes with the potential to upset the way things are in our life and this can frighten us or even cause us to sabotage even the most positive change in our life. Many of us even have hidden fears about such things as wealth and love that we deny yet which are very real in our mind. What can we do when these fears strike? Would it be possible to work with these emotions instead of against them to further leverage the Law of Attraction?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
For example, perhaps you have an elusive goal of falling in love. Maybe you have someone in mind or it could be that your dream is simply that someone wonderful comes into your life and falls in love with you. You want this to happen but history has shown that relationships end poorly for you. In the back of your mind there is constant doubt or fear that you'll be hurt or rejected. This fear becomes so overwhelming that you become emotional and frustrated with trying to have pleasant thoughts about this dream of falling in love.
Instead of fighting against the flow of emotions that this dream brings out in you, why not go with the flow and harness the power of these thoughts. Let fear bring that special someone into your life. Instead of thinking about rejection think about what else might happen if you were to get into a relationship. Maybe the object of your desire could fall so deeply in love that they cause problems in your life. Perhaps their love smothers you and they become jealous of your friends. Perhaps you enjoy spending some time alone and you worry that their love will become so consuming that there won't be time to do things alone as you are accustomed to. Throw every fear you can think of at the thought of having someone fall madly and passionately in love with you and you will be using fear and doubt to bring love into your life.
Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.
There are going to be times when negative thoughts and doubts come into our mind. We might feel that we are helpless to do anything about them. True fears and underlying doubts are a part of our makeup. Not all of us accept change easily and even the thought of positive changes can send some of us into a tailspin. Every positive change comes with the potential to upset the way things are in our life and this can frighten us or even cause us to sabotage even the most positive change in our life. Many of us even have hidden fears about such things as wealth and love that we deny yet which are very real in our mind. What can we do when these fears strike? Would it be possible to work with these emotions instead of against them to further leverage the Law of Attraction?
It is often said that thoughts backed by powerful emotions are necessary to manifest our dreams. Many people will tell you that your thoughts backed by passion and desire will bring you the things you dream of. If this is true then thoughts backed by fear can also help to bring a scenario in your mind to life. Perhaps you have had this happen in your life. Maybe you worried that you would lose a job. It could be that you were filled with fear that someone you loved would leave you. Have you ever had an instance in your life where you could almost picture in your mind something bad happening and that nightmare soon came true? That is an example of a thought backed by a powerful emotion. It was a negative emotion but the universe doesn't know that. The Law of Attraction doesn't judge.
Now, what if you could recreate that kind of scenario in your life but use those negative emotions to bring the things you want into your life. What if you could turn fear in your favor and use worry to make your dreams come true. While being positive and thinking optimistic thoughts about your future might be your goal, if you are struggling with negative thoughts, why not bend those thoughts to help you instead of hurt you?
For example, perhaps you have an elusive goal of falling in love. Maybe you have someone in mind or it could be that your dream is simply that someone wonderful comes into your life and falls in love with you. You want this to happen but history has shown that relationships end poorly for you. In the back of your mind there is constant doubt or fear that you'll be hurt or rejected. This fear becomes so overwhelming that you become emotional and frustrated with trying to have pleasant thoughts about this dream of falling in love.
Instead of fighting against the flow of emotions that this dream brings out in you, why not go with the flow and harness the power of these thoughts. Let fear bring that special someone into your life. Instead of thinking about rejection think about what else might happen if you were to get into a relationship. Maybe the object of your desire could fall so deeply in love that they cause problems in your life. Perhaps their love smothers you and they become jealous of your friends. Perhaps you enjoy spending some time alone and you worry that their love will become so consuming that there won't be time to do things alone as you are accustomed to. Throw every fear you can think of at the thought of having someone fall madly and passionately in love with you and you will be using fear and doubt to bring love into your life.
Surely, your goal is to make your dreams come true using the Law of Attraction and positive thoughts. You should still stick to that regimen when you're feeling positive and optimistic. Continue to spend time visualizing and meditating about your dreams and goals but for those times when negative thoughts might make you feel like you can't focus, turn them around. Try using those negative thoughts or those bad days to continue to propel you towards your goals. Stop beating yourself up because you feel somehow unfit or weak. We all have bad days and negative thoughts. Life is all about how we harness those thoughts and make them work for us instead of against us to bring into reality the life that we truly deserve.
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